One of my favorites!

Played in a circle (minimum 9). You start in the middle to explain and begin the game. The goal is to get somebody to take your place. The game is played in rounds with an explanation of the rules before starting a new round. I usually timebox this game to 10-15 mins. This is great for tension relief in a group or for getting them prepared for an upcoming interactive session.

Round One

You approach someone in the circle and say either Bibbity-Bobbity-Bop or Bop. In order to avoid replacing you in the middle the person must respond as follows:

  • If you say “Bibbity-Bobbity-Bop”, they must say “Bop” before you finish.
  • If you just say “Bop”, they must say nothing.

Tip: Demonstrate and share that standing close to people makes them uncomfortable and likely to slip up.

Keep playing this round for a few turns allowing the person in the middle to be replaced with different players. Typically, somebody gets stuck and finds it difficult to get out. This is the time to step in and give them another method of getting someone in the circle to replace them.

Round Two

As well as using the method from round one the person in the middle can say “James Bond 1,2,3,4,5,6,7,8,9,10.”

Before you finish counting to 10 the person you challenge must adopt and hold the James Bond pose.

In addition, the players either side must adopt the position of bond girls who adoringly cry “Oh James, Oh James.”

Now you have three potential victims who may slip up and replace you in the circle.

Round Three

Add “Elephant 1,2,3,4,5,6,7,8,9,10.” Keep rounds one and two as options also.

When challenged the player adopts the elephant position. The players either side form the elephant ears. All three must be in position before you finish counting to 10.

Round Four

Add “Toaster 1,2,3,4,5,6,7,8,9,10.” Keeping everything else as before.

When challenged the player continuosly jumps up and down like a piece of toast ready in a toaster. The players either side face each other with their arms reaching out to form the body of the toaster around the jumping toast. Anyone not in position by the count of 10 is the new man in the middle.

Round Five

Add “Shower 1,2,3,4,5,6,7,8,9,10.”

When challenged the player adopts the shower pose and pirouettes on the spot. The players either side reach both hands across and in front of the showerer simulating the shower doors opening and closing.

Round Six

If you are still going at this point here are some other adaptations you can try.  Bibbity-Bobbity-Bop Additions


Closer to the Sun

Closer to the Sun
Participants form a circle around an object on the ground identified as the sun. Ask participants to move closer to or further from the sun dependent upon the accuracy of each statement.

  1. I live in King County
  2. I was born in Washington State
  3. I like my job
  4. This is the best job I ever had
  5. I like to work alone
  6. Hearing everyone’s viewpoint is important
  7. I like to have all the information before I get started
  8. I am OK with last minute changes
  9. Conflict makes me stronger
  10. I am always open to feedback
  11. Winning is important to me
  12. I seek out people who are different to me
  13. I email most of my communication
  14. I would rather lead than be led
  15. More hands make light work
  16. I am comfortable expressing my feelings
  17. I like to work with the same people most of the time
  18. I work harder than most people
  19. Good enough is never enough
  20. Pay people the best salaries and they will deliver the best product

Reflection/Processing: (Important! Be sure to ask several of these questions at the end of the activity.)

  1. About which person did you learn the most? …the least?
  2. Which people do you hope to get to know better? Why?
  3. Which answer surprised you most?
  4. Which person do you think/feel is most like you? Which seems least like you?
  5. In what ways did this activity help you get acquainted with other group members?
  6. If you were to lead this activity with another group, what will you do similarly or differently?



Use their images to start conversations. Watch team formation surface in powerful ways. Highly recommend this for every facilitators toolkit. Thanks to Sylvia Taylor for introducing me.

Breakup or Love Letters

Breakup Letter

Love Letter

Unashamedly stolen from a session at Agile 2011. Great fun. Prepare to be amazed at the creativity and talent within your group.

Silent Touch

Silent Touch

Enables greater sensitivity and awareness between team members. I recommend you divide larger groups into teams of (6 to 10).

Where have I been?

Where have you been and what have you done since we last saw you?

A simple question which is great when building a new team. I have seen it used to great effect at the beginning of day two in a four day workshop. Team members from out of town and those more local get to share and hear a little more about their peers.

Helium Stick

Helium Stick Deceptively simple but powerful exercise for learning how to work together and communicate in small to medium sized groups.